he still does, especially now that his mom is rriearmed again and has a different name from him and the younger one. i could go on and on about this topic but i won't bore you - i'd say move it up to your middle name so you have it but don't hyphenate it. you can always drop the married name if the situation calls for it because it is truthfully your name. but in the long run - once there are kids and you have settled into the family life, i think - knowing you - that you will be a lot like me and enjoy the unity that comes from something so simple as having one family name. i'm sure others will disagree. :-)

by Shinpei 09:41:51 PM 2012.11.01