So I have been with my boyfriend for seven motnhs now, about 2 or 3 weeks ago we stopped having as much sex as we usually do. I honestly didn't really notice it. It's the end of the semester, I'm getting ready to move and I'm stressed out I've never really been super keen on sex, but my boyfriend is very attractive and has a nice body (he works out religiously) so it was a little easier for me to be into sex I guess you can say. I also have put on a little bit of weight since I met him not much, but I didn't really eat too much before I met him. He always eats so I eat a lot more often than I use to. Plus I've recently been on and off of prednisone, which can cause weight gain. Either way IDK I'm just confused because I'm only 25 (almost) so I should be at the peak of my sexual whatever.. I'm on ortho tricyclen lo.. heard that can kill your sex drive.. I'm on a mood stabilizer too, but my mental health doc says it has no sexual side effects, that she is aware of. I have a physical health issue as well; recently found out I have pre-cancerous cells, the ones that lead to cervical cancer.. I don't know if that has anything to do with it. (thought I'd mention everything, just to give people full info on whats going on) When we do have sex, it's way better with him then any boyfriend I've had in the past.. Please if you have any ideas let me know because this is really causing some problems between us. He says it's not natural and I don't love him anymore, I've changed. AHHH! like seriously it's not like I'm trying to do all this.. I mean come on, why would I want to consciously bring problems to the relationship especially about sex. I'm so frustrated, it's making me really depressed again if you can help I would sincerely appreciate it. oh and btw if you have anything mean to say, please keep it to your self. Thanks..
by Andrew 10:46:18 AM 2013.06.30 |