I don't know if anything with your fenrid has changed since you originally posted this. I just checked your blog today and saw this. I am so scared for you! After the events in AZ this past weekend, you never know what can set off a disturbed individual. One of my half-sisters is schizophrenic. She's 11 yrs. older than me. Schizophrenics really need a personal caregiver to slip their meds into milkshakes as even if they start meds, they refuse to continue. There are so many aspects of this mental illness and every single one presents a different challenge.I admire you for trying to be a good fenrid and not giving up on him. That being said, you have to take into consideration if there's even a remote chance that your fenrid could become unpredictable and dangerous. To echo one of the other commenters, you may have to risk being a bad fenrid to keep your family safe. I know I would rather be looked on by society as a bad person than later regret that I didn't put some distance between an unstable person and a member of my family.Of course there are some schizophrenics who are completely harmless. Please take my suggestions in the spirit in which they are given. I don't know every detail of what you've gone through so you need to use your own judgement. Maybe try calling a mental health agency to see if what they suggest in this predicament.Good luck with your fenrid. I hope you can resolve this in a positive way for everyone involved.

by Cvijetin 06:50:56 AM 2012.10.05