Well, since I don't know your age, I'm going to assume you're not too grey arunod the temples yet? (late teens, early 20 s perhaps?) In my experience I've noticed that for a lot of women, as we get older, our priorities change in what were looking for in a boyfriend. A lot of younger and more immature people (men and women alike I think) tend to look for physical attraction as the #1 factor in determining who they want to be with. The older I get, the more I look for emotional and intellectual attraction; the physical side becomes a bonus over finding someone with whom you can actually stand to spend a lot of your time and hold a solid conversation with. I think the best advice I can give you is to be confident that you have a lot to offer to a woman and that looks are not the only thing women are after. Besides, the people I've ended up being the most attracted to are the ones that I didn't start out thinking were the cutest guys I'd ever met. Hang in there, you'll meet the right girl some day. Plus, do you really want a woman who only wants to be with you becasue you're hot'?
by Daniel 10:27:39 PM 2013.10.24 |